Keep in Touch
Remember in high school, at the end of each year we'd get each other to sign yearbooks, trying to record the signatures and memories you had with each person throughout that past school year? I don't happen to reminisce about high school too often, but when I was cleaning and organizing my room recently, I was struck with the urge to pick that old yearbook up and flip through it.
The first thing that surprised me was how young everyone looked in their pictures (including myself, of course). As a senior in college seeing the incoming freshman, I'd always wondered whether or not I looked that young myself 4 years ago, and there I had my answer.
When I started reading the notes of people who had signed my yearbook, it brought back many great memories, but I also couldn't help feeling some amount of regret at how many times the words "keep in touch" came up in those signatures, and how few of these people I had actually kept in touch with.
I was fortunate enough to attend college at a place where a lot of DGS grads decided to go, and among this group were a few people that became my closest friends throughout the past few years, and who I'll definitely be close with for years to come. I'm very thankful for having these guys as friends all this time, and also for the few others I was able to keep up with during the summers, Thanksgivings, or Spring Breaks that didn't go to Champaign. But the vast majority of my friends in high school just kind of faded off and I can only wonder where these people are now and what they're doing.
Now, all that high school stuff is in the past. I can't really expect to be "friends 4-ever" with everyone I've ever hung out with. To be fair, the whole keeping in touch thing is a 2-way deal, and it's not all my fault for failing to do so after high school. Circumstances change, people change, and none of this can be avoided.
But as it stands, I know that I left college little more than a month ago making a lot of those same promises to stay in touch with people I'd met at school. I honestly hope that I have become wiser in these past four years and that this time, not as many of my close friends will be lost in the shuffle.
Still, all this is easier said than done, and this will be one of the toughest challenges I've ever faced which I can't simply hope it into fruition. I'm already seeing that everyone has his/her own life to live, with or without me, and that in many cases, distance will be the foremost barrier to overcome. One of my roommates is headed to Berkeley for grad school, a couple friends are in Texas working already, and some others are staying in Champaign for more school too. And even though a few are gonna be working in the area, their jobs will likely allow for very limited time to hang out like before as they sleep at the ungodly hour of 11pm to wake up early for an 8 hour day.
For me personally, a bigger hindrance than distance is a sense of laziness, or at least a lack of dedication. When change comes, I usually end up sitting back and losing track of everything, seemingly helpless to exert any control over my own situation. But what it really comes down to is going with the flow while hanging on to what you can. There's no point in swimming against the tide, you'll just end up being swept backwards by the waves with a mouthful of salty water. But whenever possible, I'll have to make it a point to find ways to talk to and meet up with the people I can. Relationships, even among guys, don't sustain themselves, as I've already learned from post high-school experience. And I've also learned that making the effort to keep a friend is something I'll never regret doing.
While I'm on this general topic, I want to recommend that everyone who hasn't started a blog should do so. In only a week or two of writing these entries, I've found that it's not only a great way to organize your thoughts and release some of your creative writing energy, but also a way to share a little of what's going on in your own life to whoever takes time out to read. I know of a couple other people's blogs and I enjoy reading what they have to write. It's not a relationship in itself, but it's almost like talking to the person on the phone once in a while and just keeping in step with the new times.
You might say, as my sister did, that your life is too boring and uneventful to keep a blog. But look at me, I work at home with my dad all day, and at night I just watch baseball or sit around, maybe waiting for someone to call me to do something, and then I get ready to sleep around 11 or 12. Sure, it's true that my blogs aren't all that interesting to read, but that's cause I suck at writing. Life is as interesting as you make it. No matter how little or how much is going on, there's always something to write about. You'd actually be able to write more often if you have less other stuff to do. So I definitely think everyone should have a blog of some sort and just update it as frequently or infrequently as is reasonable. Not only will you give people like me with no life something to read, but I'm willing to bet that you'll get a lot out of the blog-writing habit yourselves, if you're ready to put some time and effort into it.
Also, a couple people have commented on my blog and I really like when people tell me something I wrote was true, or funny, or even wrong or disgusting. Just knowing that someone is reading what you write is pretty rewarding, even if it's only a few people. I'm considering upgrading to blogpro or whatever that is called so that people will be able to leave comments on my posts. But for now, don't hesitate to send me a quick email or IM if you have something to say or add to what I wrote.
Tuesday, June 18, 2002
Monday, June 17, 2002
Jusrede
For those of you that are wondering what the title of my blog means, it was supposed to be a joke. I thought it would be funny to name my blog like the way Musiq Soulchild spells. (his name is just "Musiq" now). His CD's have been titled "aijuswanaseing" and "juslisen." get it now?
Not that he's my favorite artist out there or anything, but aijusthautitwhuzphunea. His songs aren't bad actually. If i can recommend from his first album "Mary-Go-Round," "Girl Next Door," and "Love," in addition to his current single "Half-Crazy" off the second album.
As for my blog title, I will probably change it eventually. I'm still messing with the template too, and maybe I will add some links sometime as well.
For those of you that are wondering what the title of my blog means, it was supposed to be a joke. I thought it would be funny to name my blog like the way Musiq Soulchild spells. (his name is just "Musiq" now). His CD's have been titled "aijuswanaseing" and "juslisen." get it now?
Not that he's my favorite artist out there or anything, but aijusthautitwhuzphunea. His songs aren't bad actually. If i can recommend from his first album "Mary-Go-Round," "Girl Next Door," and "Love," in addition to his current single "Half-Crazy" off the second album.
As for my blog title, I will probably change it eventually. I'm still messing with the template too, and maybe I will add some links sometime as well.
Guys are from Jackass, Girls are from Dawson's
In an attempt to get more in touch with my sensitive side, I've been giving some extra thought to the differences between guys and girls. Now, I'm pretty sure that I already know about the physiological differences, so I won't write about that. But I'm still learning a lot about how girls are compared to guys in terms of how they think and act, especially in relationships.
It took quite a keen eye to note that girls are, in general, more thoughtful than guys. Yes, that is why you read my blogs, to learn such earthshattering information. Anyways, we all knew that much already, but there's still a lot I'm observing.
For example, guys never call each other "just to talk." Speaking from a personal point of view, my typical phone conversation lasts under a minute and involves only the basics: what you wanna do, when you wanna meet, and where. We (guys) don't curl up with the phone on our beds and giggle about which girls are "cute" or who's going out with who. Not that we never talk about that stuff, but it's rarely done over the phone. The same goes with email. The only long phone conversations I have (5 mins and over) are with those of the female variety. Not that it's terrible or anything, but girls have to understand that guys aren't used to that kind of thing. We aren't trying to be rude or insensitive when there's a long pause because there isn't anything to talk about, and we say "Ok, well i guess I'll talk to you later then."
Another thing is what guys value in relationships. We don't typically care about getting gifts and remembering special dates, but it's important to know that your bro's got your back when it counts. We don't have to have breakthrough moments of crying our eyes out telling each other about all our past breakups and childhood drama to be good buds with someone, all it takes is half an hour of playing video games or basketball with someone and feeling like you identify with each other. It's also okay to not see your best friends all the time. If one of my friends goes on vacation or something, I never feel dissed if they don't call me regularly or email me to keep in touch, cause they'll be back soon anyways.
Girls, on the other hand, are real sticklers when it comes to those little things. You better not forget a girl's birthday, Mother's Day, an anniversary of any type, or Martin Luther King Jr. Day, because they sure won't. It's hard for guys to understand that stuff like flowers, cards, or a simple unexpected phone call mean so much to a girl, considering that we don't need (or even want) any of that ourselves. Girls can't be best friends with someone they met 3 days ago - it takes years, or at least one of those breakthrough moments I described above.
There's tons of other differences. Guys can just hang around, chill with each other and do nothing, while seeing nothing wrong with that. Girls have to be doing something when they're together, whether it's shopping, painting their toenails, talking about guys, going out and dancing, whatever... but they look at guys and call them bums and losers for doing nothing. In reality, we aren't doing "nothing" per se, that's just called "chillin" and it's one of the ways we bond. Guys (typically) don't pay as much attention to the lyrics in songs or who sings it, while girls are more sensitive about that. Guys are good drivers, girl's aren't. Guys are more easily entertained by shows like MTV's Jackass, while girls need intricate storylines in stuff like Dawson's Creek. Guys are bigger than girls. Girls are better cooks (not trying to belittle that, but I personally believe that girls are better at paying attention to detail and that makes them better at cooking). Guys are more emotionally stable, girls are emotional rollercoasters - they reach higher highs but lower lows. (A word of advice for guys getting into new relationships: find out as soon as you can when "that time of the month" is and brace yourselves accordingly.) Guys "think the idea of punting a small dog is funny" (quotes because I got that one from one of those email forwards once).
Now, I'm not ripping on either guys or girls here. Not even all of this stuff I'm saying is true because there are plenty of exceptions, and don't be insulted if you're a guy who likes to cook or follows Dawson's Creek. But if you haven't already, think about the things I just wrote and tell me if I'm off base here.
By the way, it's been a slow past few days work-wise, and that is why I have been writing such long entries.
In an attempt to get more in touch with my sensitive side, I've been giving some extra thought to the differences between guys and girls. Now, I'm pretty sure that I already know about the physiological differences, so I won't write about that. But I'm still learning a lot about how girls are compared to guys in terms of how they think and act, especially in relationships.
It took quite a keen eye to note that girls are, in general, more thoughtful than guys. Yes, that is why you read my blogs, to learn such earthshattering information. Anyways, we all knew that much already, but there's still a lot I'm observing.
For example, guys never call each other "just to talk." Speaking from a personal point of view, my typical phone conversation lasts under a minute and involves only the basics: what you wanna do, when you wanna meet, and where. We (guys) don't curl up with the phone on our beds and giggle about which girls are "cute" or who's going out with who. Not that we never talk about that stuff, but it's rarely done over the phone. The same goes with email. The only long phone conversations I have (5 mins and over) are with those of the female variety. Not that it's terrible or anything, but girls have to understand that guys aren't used to that kind of thing. We aren't trying to be rude or insensitive when there's a long pause because there isn't anything to talk about, and we say "Ok, well i guess I'll talk to you later then."
Another thing is what guys value in relationships. We don't typically care about getting gifts and remembering special dates, but it's important to know that your bro's got your back when it counts. We don't have to have breakthrough moments of crying our eyes out telling each other about all our past breakups and childhood drama to be good buds with someone, all it takes is half an hour of playing video games or basketball with someone and feeling like you identify with each other. It's also okay to not see your best friends all the time. If one of my friends goes on vacation or something, I never feel dissed if they don't call me regularly or email me to keep in touch, cause they'll be back soon anyways.
Girls, on the other hand, are real sticklers when it comes to those little things. You better not forget a girl's birthday, Mother's Day, an anniversary of any type, or Martin Luther King Jr. Day, because they sure won't. It's hard for guys to understand that stuff like flowers, cards, or a simple unexpected phone call mean so much to a girl, considering that we don't need (or even want) any of that ourselves. Girls can't be best friends with someone they met 3 days ago - it takes years, or at least one of those breakthrough moments I described above.
There's tons of other differences. Guys can just hang around, chill with each other and do nothing, while seeing nothing wrong with that. Girls have to be doing something when they're together, whether it's shopping, painting their toenails, talking about guys, going out and dancing, whatever... but they look at guys and call them bums and losers for doing nothing. In reality, we aren't doing "nothing" per se, that's just called "chillin" and it's one of the ways we bond. Guys (typically) don't pay as much attention to the lyrics in songs or who sings it, while girls are more sensitive about that. Guys are good drivers, girl's aren't. Guys are more easily entertained by shows like MTV's Jackass, while girls need intricate storylines in stuff like Dawson's Creek. Guys are bigger than girls. Girls are better cooks (not trying to belittle that, but I personally believe that girls are better at paying attention to detail and that makes them better at cooking). Guys are more emotionally stable, girls are emotional rollercoasters - they reach higher highs but lower lows. (A word of advice for guys getting into new relationships: find out as soon as you can when "that time of the month" is and brace yourselves accordingly.) Guys "think the idea of punting a small dog is funny" (quotes because I got that one from one of those email forwards once).
Now, I'm not ripping on either guys or girls here. Not even all of this stuff I'm saying is true because there are plenty of exceptions, and don't be insulted if you're a guy who likes to cook or follows Dawson's Creek. But if you haven't already, think about the things I just wrote and tell me if I'm off base here.
By the way, it's been a slow past few days work-wise, and that is why I have been writing such long entries.
Sunday, June 16, 2002
Baseball
It's always bothered me that surprisingly few people truly enjoy and appreciate the game that is supposed to be "America's Pastime." Personally, I love the game more than any other sport... watching it on TV, watching it live, playing it, playing fantasy baseball, base-ically (ha-ha) anything to do with it. Though I'm sure a lot of people are baseball fans, I would definitely guess that more people nowadays prefer to watch football or basketball, as I always hear the word "boring" used incessantly in association with the game.
Sure, on the surface, baseball seems to be a lot slower than the other sports. Players take timeout in between every pitch or whenever they feel like it. Bulky hitters like Mark McGwire dominating the highlights suggest that most players share a similar physique (or aspire to achieve one like his). Games typically last 3 hours long, but could easily surpass 4 depending on the circumstances, and they play almost every day for a whole summer. Compare that to 2 1/2 hrs for an NBA game (or 2 for NCAA), or NFL's one game a week schedule, and I guess it's somewhat understandable that people get tired of watching baseball.
Those who think speed is not a major factor in baseball, however, are greatly mistaken. I think a good argument could be made that baseball is the most speed-dominated game out there of the 4 major sports, including hockey. For starters, consider that the typical Major League pitcher throws at least a 90 mph fastball. That means that the ball travels from the pitchers hand to the plate in well under a second. Thus, in that fraction of a second, the hitter has to pick up the location of the ball, try to guess what kind of pitch it is, decide to swing, and hit the ball accordingly. That's no easy task, let me just tell you that it's hard enough to play catch with my friend who claims (and I believe him) to throw in the 60's speed-wise.
Speed in the form of a player's ability to run is also a huge factor in baseball. When a fielder has great acceleration, it can make the difference between an out and a triple. When a hitter is extremely fast out of the batters box, (Ichiro is a good example) it forces the defense to hurry, increasing the likelihood of errors as well as adding a dimension to a hitter's On-Base Percentage in the form of infield hits. Being fast out of the box can also save outs by avoiding the back end of double plays. When a baserunner is a threat to steal, it limits the pitcher's effectiveness by forcing him to shorten his delivery, while also making him more apt to throw fastballs rather than off-speed pitches in order to make it easier to prevent a stolen base.
Sure, when it comes to continuous play, baseball is no match for other sports. But to me, there are so many reasons I could list on why its such a great game. There's so many things to consider in every situation, and even after years of watching the sport, I'm still learning more subtleties of the game, because it is by far the most complicated of the major sports.
The human aspect is also much more prominent in baseball, and that is probably the single best thing I like about the game that separates it from the others. Every pitch and every play involves the call of an umpire. Every umpire has his own style and his own strike zone. Every manager is faced with many decisions throughout the game and the way he handles them usually determines the outcome of the game, making him much more important than a coach in basketball or football. To bunt, or not to bunt? Leave the starter in, or take him out for a lefty? Play the infield back with less than 2 outs, or concede the run for an out? Not only this, but there are many unwritten rules within the game that everyone is supposed to play by. Don't steal a base when your team has a big lead. Don't time pitches in the on-deck circle. Don't show up the pitcher after hitting a home run, especially if you're a rookie. Break one of these rules, and you can expect to get a fastball thrown at you or at one of your teammates. Throw at someone who doesn't like it, and risk him charging the mound and the benches clearing for a brawl.
I could go on and on about all the great things about baseball, little and small, that have made me a die-hard fan. But, my blog entries are getting long and boring, and I risk losing the attention of those who actually read it.
It's always bothered me that surprisingly few people truly enjoy and appreciate the game that is supposed to be "America's Pastime." Personally, I love the game more than any other sport... watching it on TV, watching it live, playing it, playing fantasy baseball, base-ically (ha-ha) anything to do with it. Though I'm sure a lot of people are baseball fans, I would definitely guess that more people nowadays prefer to watch football or basketball, as I always hear the word "boring" used incessantly in association with the game.
Sure, on the surface, baseball seems to be a lot slower than the other sports. Players take timeout in between every pitch or whenever they feel like it. Bulky hitters like Mark McGwire dominating the highlights suggest that most players share a similar physique (or aspire to achieve one like his). Games typically last 3 hours long, but could easily surpass 4 depending on the circumstances, and they play almost every day for a whole summer. Compare that to 2 1/2 hrs for an NBA game (or 2 for NCAA), or NFL's one game a week schedule, and I guess it's somewhat understandable that people get tired of watching baseball.
Those who think speed is not a major factor in baseball, however, are greatly mistaken. I think a good argument could be made that baseball is the most speed-dominated game out there of the 4 major sports, including hockey. For starters, consider that the typical Major League pitcher throws at least a 90 mph fastball. That means that the ball travels from the pitchers hand to the plate in well under a second. Thus, in that fraction of a second, the hitter has to pick up the location of the ball, try to guess what kind of pitch it is, decide to swing, and hit the ball accordingly. That's no easy task, let me just tell you that it's hard enough to play catch with my friend who claims (and I believe him) to throw in the 60's speed-wise.
Speed in the form of a player's ability to run is also a huge factor in baseball. When a fielder has great acceleration, it can make the difference between an out and a triple. When a hitter is extremely fast out of the batters box, (Ichiro is a good example) it forces the defense to hurry, increasing the likelihood of errors as well as adding a dimension to a hitter's On-Base Percentage in the form of infield hits. Being fast out of the box can also save outs by avoiding the back end of double plays. When a baserunner is a threat to steal, it limits the pitcher's effectiveness by forcing him to shorten his delivery, while also making him more apt to throw fastballs rather than off-speed pitches in order to make it easier to prevent a stolen base.
Sure, when it comes to continuous play, baseball is no match for other sports. But to me, there are so many reasons I could list on why its such a great game. There's so many things to consider in every situation, and even after years of watching the sport, I'm still learning more subtleties of the game, because it is by far the most complicated of the major sports.
The human aspect is also much more prominent in baseball, and that is probably the single best thing I like about the game that separates it from the others. Every pitch and every play involves the call of an umpire. Every umpire has his own style and his own strike zone. Every manager is faced with many decisions throughout the game and the way he handles them usually determines the outcome of the game, making him much more important than a coach in basketball or football. To bunt, or not to bunt? Leave the starter in, or take him out for a lefty? Play the infield back with less than 2 outs, or concede the run for an out? Not only this, but there are many unwritten rules within the game that everyone is supposed to play by. Don't steal a base when your team has a big lead. Don't time pitches in the on-deck circle. Don't show up the pitcher after hitting a home run, especially if you're a rookie. Break one of these rules, and you can expect to get a fastball thrown at you or at one of your teammates. Throw at someone who doesn't like it, and risk him charging the mound and the benches clearing for a brawl.
I could go on and on about all the great things about baseball, little and small, that have made me a die-hard fan. But, my blog entries are getting long and boring, and I risk losing the attention of those who actually read it.
Thoughts On Looking Young
For as long as I can remember, my appearance has always made people think that I am younger than I am. In an earlier blog I already told the story about the Sox game and how the guy wasn't gonna give me a beach towel, but there are a million other stories I could tell like that one. It's not uncommon for people to mistake my little sister as being older than me. No matter where I am, or what it is, I get asked for ID. Last Spring Break when I went to Vegas, I got carded at every table; at one point I was even carded twice at the same table, when both pit bosses working the area spotted little babyfaced joe at different times (no lie, you can ask the people I went with).
Just today, when I ordered a Bud Light at TGI Fridays during dinner, the waitress (who probably wasn't old enough to drive herself) didn't ask me for ID at first. Me and Olivia looked at each other right away and were both shocked that for once, and maybe one time only, somebody actually looked at me and thought, "He looks old enough, I don't need to check this guy." Of course, that didn't last long cause she ended up asking me for my license anyways when she came back, before handing me the bottle.
Earlier this week, I went with my dad to a store to buy some computer stuff, and since he forgot to bring his wallet, I had to pay wiith my credit card. I can't say for sure if this is because I look young, but the cashier asked to see ID before authorizing my card and signature. I wouldn't be surprised though.
One of the worst ones was sometime this past semester when I went to see a rated R movie. The ticket guy asked me for my ID but not my friend who was with me (who I'm pretty sure was younger than me). Now, at the time, my license was being held as bond for my traffic ticket so I could've been screwed. Oh, but lady luck smiled upon me that night as my friend did have his ID and was able to show that he was 21 and over. Thus, he was an adult and I could watch the movie because I was accompanied by an adult. How awesome! Not only does the guy not think I am 17 and over (I was 22 for those of you keeping count at home), but the only reason I was let in is because I was accompanied by an adult - who is actually a friend that is younger than me and much less mature, I should add.
I can even remember not too long ago, when I was probably 14 or 15, and my parents would still pass me off at Old Country Buffet as a child (12 and under). I was really short back then and didn't really hit my growth spurt till about sophomore or jr year of high school when most people get it around junior high, no later. No girls ever paid attention to me because they like the older-looking guys and that wasn't me (and still isn't... I'm lucky enough to have found a girl who doesn't care).
So, what's funny to everyone else is pretty much an ongoing annoyance and minor insults for me. A lot of people think it's not so bad, plus I know in 10 or 15 years I will be happy I look younger than my peers. But there are times I really think that looking older would be so much better. You know, I wouldn't even be surprised if sometimes I walk into a job interview, and the interviewer takes one look and thinks "we can't hire this guy... no one's gonna respect or listen to a guy that looks like he's in high school." Not that I would blame them, cause can you imagine entrusting an important engineering job to a high schooler, or someone who looks no older than one?
I think what it comes down to is respect... people naturally respect those who look older. Even if I am much more intelligent and mature than someone, they are more likely to command attention or respect if their appearance suggests that they are older. Not the way I'd like it to be, but nothing I can do about it, right? It's just something I will have to live with... what do you all think, should I tape my drivers license to my forehead from now on?
For as long as I can remember, my appearance has always made people think that I am younger than I am. In an earlier blog I already told the story about the Sox game and how the guy wasn't gonna give me a beach towel, but there are a million other stories I could tell like that one. It's not uncommon for people to mistake my little sister as being older than me. No matter where I am, or what it is, I get asked for ID. Last Spring Break when I went to Vegas, I got carded at every table; at one point I was even carded twice at the same table, when both pit bosses working the area spotted little babyfaced joe at different times (no lie, you can ask the people I went with).
Just today, when I ordered a Bud Light at TGI Fridays during dinner, the waitress (who probably wasn't old enough to drive herself) didn't ask me for ID at first. Me and Olivia looked at each other right away and were both shocked that for once, and maybe one time only, somebody actually looked at me and thought, "He looks old enough, I don't need to check this guy." Of course, that didn't last long cause she ended up asking me for my license anyways when she came back, before handing me the bottle.
Earlier this week, I went with my dad to a store to buy some computer stuff, and since he forgot to bring his wallet, I had to pay wiith my credit card. I can't say for sure if this is because I look young, but the cashier asked to see ID before authorizing my card and signature. I wouldn't be surprised though.
One of the worst ones was sometime this past semester when I went to see a rated R movie. The ticket guy asked me for my ID but not my friend who was with me (who I'm pretty sure was younger than me). Now, at the time, my license was being held as bond for my traffic ticket so I could've been screwed. Oh, but lady luck smiled upon me that night as my friend did have his ID and was able to show that he was 21 and over. Thus, he was an adult and I could watch the movie because I was accompanied by an adult. How awesome! Not only does the guy not think I am 17 and over (I was 22 for those of you keeping count at home), but the only reason I was let in is because I was accompanied by an adult - who is actually a friend that is younger than me and much less mature, I should add.
I can even remember not too long ago, when I was probably 14 or 15, and my parents would still pass me off at Old Country Buffet as a child (12 and under). I was really short back then and didn't really hit my growth spurt till about sophomore or jr year of high school when most people get it around junior high, no later. No girls ever paid attention to me because they like the older-looking guys and that wasn't me (and still isn't... I'm lucky enough to have found a girl who doesn't care).
So, what's funny to everyone else is pretty much an ongoing annoyance and minor insults for me. A lot of people think it's not so bad, plus I know in 10 or 15 years I will be happy I look younger than my peers. But there are times I really think that looking older would be so much better. You know, I wouldn't even be surprised if sometimes I walk into a job interview, and the interviewer takes one look and thinks "we can't hire this guy... no one's gonna respect or listen to a guy that looks like he's in high school." Not that I would blame them, cause can you imagine entrusting an important engineering job to a high schooler, or someone who looks no older than one?
I think what it comes down to is respect... people naturally respect those who look older. Even if I am much more intelligent and mature than someone, they are more likely to command attention or respect if their appearance suggests that they are older. Not the way I'd like it to be, but nothing I can do about it, right? It's just something I will have to live with... what do you all think, should I tape my drivers license to my forehead from now on?
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